"Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness"
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Her pairing of “discipline and order” with “play and pure foolishness” is the real maneuver. She doesn’t romanticize chaos as authenticity, and she doesn’t worship rigor as virtue. “Relieved” is the key verb: order is necessary, but it’s pressure; it needs a release valve. Not “balanced” (a sterile corporate word), but relieved, like unclenching a fist. And she insists on “pure foolishness,” a kind of unproductive, non-monetizable play that modern life constantly tries to launder into “wellness” or “creativity” with outcomes attached.
Context matters: Sarton’s work is steeped in solitude, routine, and the daily negotiations of making poems, keeping a house, living with one’s own mind. For a 20th-century woman artist, “discipline” isn’t just aesthetic; it’s logistical defiance. The subtext is bracingly pragmatic: if you don’t schedule the seriousness, it won’t happen, and if you don’t permit the foolishness, the seriousness curdles into bitterness. The day, she implies, is either crafted on purpose or assembled by default.
Quote Details
| Topic | Self-Discipline |
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| Source | Verified source: Journal of a Solitude (May Sarton, 1973)
Evidence: Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness. (Page 109). This wording is verifiable in May Sarton's own work (a primary source). Google Books shows the line on p. 109 of Journal of a Solitude. Many secondary quote sites introduce a variant wording (often adding an extra “some” before “pure foolishness”), but the primary-source line on the scanned/book-view page is without that extra “some.” Other candidates (1) Create and Move Forward in Life (Eve Evangelista, 2012) compilation96.2% ... Each day , and the living of it , has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with ... |
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Sarton, May. (2026, February 23). Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-day-and-the-living-of-it-has-to-be-a-95698/
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Sarton, May. "Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness." FixQuotes. February 23, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-day-and-the-living-of-it-has-to-be-a-95698/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Each day, and the living of it, has to be a conscious creation in which discipline and order are relieved with some play and pure foolishness." FixQuotes, 23 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-day-and-the-living-of-it-has-to-be-a-95698/. Accessed 27 Feb. 2026.












