"Each of us, face to face with other men, is clothed with some sort of dignity, but we know only too well all the unspeakable things that go on in the heart"
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Then he pivots to the real Pirandellian knife twist: “we know only too well.” The threat isn’t that other people are unknowable; it’s that we are painfully familiar with ourselves. The “unspeakable things” aren’t merely sins or lurid impulses. They’re the private chaos we can’t translate into acceptable language: resentment that doesn’t fit our self-image, tenderness that feels humiliating, cruelty that flashes up uninvited. Unspeakable also hints at the censorship that keeps civilization running. If we said what we think, the room wouldn’t survive the sentence.
Context matters: Pirandello’s theater is built on the fracture between mask and face, role and person, the self as a set of competing versions. In early 20th-century Europe - anxious, modernizing, psychologically newly “discovered” - his work treats identity as performance under pressure. This line condenses that worldview into a social close-up: dignity is the mask that makes intimacy and public life possible, while the heart remains a backstage crowded with props we’d rather no one see. The quote works because it indicts everyone without moralizing: the mask is necessary, and the mess beneath it is ordinary.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Pirandello, Luigi. (2026, January 17). Each of us, face to face with other men, is clothed with some sort of dignity, but we know only too well all the unspeakable things that go on in the heart. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-face-to-face-with-other-men-is-clothed-81740/
Chicago Style
Pirandello, Luigi. "Each of us, face to face with other men, is clothed with some sort of dignity, but we know only too well all the unspeakable things that go on in the heart." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-face-to-face-with-other-men-is-clothed-81740/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Each of us, face to face with other men, is clothed with some sort of dignity, but we know only too well all the unspeakable things that go on in the heart." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-face-to-face-with-other-men-is-clothed-81740/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.














