"Each of us seems to have a main focus, a particular idea of practicality - a concept of 'what we want out of life' against which we judge our experiences"
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By calling it an “idea of practicality,” she exposes how values get smuggled in under the guise of common sense. Practical to whom? Practical for what end? In modern life, “practical” often means legible to institutions (career ladders, productivity, stability) rather than meaningful to the person living it. Roberts’ subtext is that practicality isn’t neutral; it’s a story about worth. Once you adopt that story, you start using it like a yardstick, “against which we judge our experiences,” turning the messy, ambiguous present into a constant evaluation.
The line “what we want out of life” sits in quotes like a raised eyebrow. It suggests that even our desires can be prepackaged slogans. Instead of asking what an experience is, we ask whether it advances the plan. That’s how a vacation becomes content, a relationship becomes an investment, a day becomes a failure.
Context matters: Roberts, associated with the mid-century self-exploration boom and metaphysical “Seth” material, is less interested in polite self-help than in attention as destiny. Name the metric, and you regain agency: change the focus, change the life you think you’re living.
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Roberts, Jane. (2026, January 15). Each of us seems to have a main focus, a particular idea of practicality - a concept of 'what we want out of life' against which we judge our experiences. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-seems-to-have-a-main-focus-a-151297/
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Roberts, Jane. "Each of us seems to have a main focus, a particular idea of practicality - a concept of 'what we want out of life' against which we judge our experiences." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-seems-to-have-a-main-focus-a-151297/.
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"Each of us seems to have a main focus, a particular idea of practicality - a concept of 'what we want out of life' against which we judge our experiences." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/each-of-us-seems-to-have-a-main-focus-a-151297/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





