"Envy comes from people's ignorance of, or lack of belief in, their own gifts"
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The phrase “their own gifts” quietly does heavy work. It assumes everyone has something intrinsic, particular, dignifying - not a trophy or a status marker, but a capacity waiting to be trusted. That’s classic Vanier: his thought, shaped by life alongside people with intellectual disabilities, resists a culture that ranks human worth by achievement. In that context, envy becomes one more byproduct of a marketplace mindset where value is scarce and comparative. If gifts are real and plural, then another person’s shine doesn’t dim yours.
There’s also a subtle moral strategy here: empathy as disarmament. If envy is born from fear and disbelief, the “cure” isn’t humiliation but accompaniment - helping people name what’s already theirs. Critics might hear an oversimplification; envy can be structural, stoked by inequality and exclusion. Still, Vanier’s intent lands: he offers a way to exit the zero-sum psychology that turns admiration into resentment, and to replace it with confidence sturdy enough to celebrate someone else without self-erasure.
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"Envy comes from people's ignorance of, or lack of belief in, their own gifts." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/envy-comes-from-peoples-ignorance-of-or-lack-of-112777/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











