"Envy is the art of counting the other fellow's blessings instead of your own"
About this Quote
The phrase “counting” does a lot of quiet work. Counting is obsessive and moralizing: it turns a neighbor’s good fortune into an inventory, a tally you can audit. And “blessings” adds another layer of acid. Blessings are supposed to be gifts, unearned, maybe even sacred. Envy profanes that by converting grace into evidence: look at what they got, look at what I didn’t. It’s a reminder that envy often masquerades as fairness - as if life were a ledger that ought to balance.
Coffin wrote in an American culture that prized visible success and public respectability, where status could be read in houses, jobs, and social standing. The quote anticipates today’s algorithmic comparison machine, but it doesn’t need Instagram to work. Its intent is corrective: redirect the gaze. The subtext is harsher: the thief isn’t your neighbor; it’s your own attention, and you’re the one picking the lock.
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| Topic | Gratitude |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Coffin, Harold. (2026, January 15). Envy is the art of counting the other fellow's blessings instead of your own. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/envy-is-the-art-of-counting-the-other-fellows-144088/
Chicago Style
Coffin, Harold. "Envy is the art of counting the other fellow's blessings instead of your own." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/envy-is-the-art-of-counting-the-other-fellows-144088/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Envy is the art of counting the other fellow's blessings instead of your own." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/envy-is-the-art-of-counting-the-other-fellows-144088/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










