"Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense"
About this Quote
The real test arrives in the space before the blow, the corridor of “not yet.” “Only the brave can endure suspense” reframes courage as a psychological skill: staying upright while your mind manufactures outcomes, while control is absent and information is partial. Suspense is where anxiety lives, where imagination turns predatory, where you’re tempted to self-sabotage just to end the waiting. McLaughlin’s line flatters neither stoicism nor melodrama; it praises the unglamorous discipline of tolerating uncertainty without demanding immediate relief.
As a mid-century American journalist and aphorist, McLaughlin wrote in an era steeped in Cold War apprehension, domestic pressures, and the polished etiquette of keeping it together. The sentence’s balance - “hardship” versus “suspense,” “cowards” versus “brave” - works like a moral x-ray. It exposes a culture that romanticizes suffering while underestimating the courage it takes to sit with ambiguity, to delay resolution, to keep faith without guarantees.
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| Topic | Anxiety |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McLaughlin, Mignon. (2026, January 17). Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-cowards-can-endure-hardship-only-the-brave-64187/
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McLaughlin, Mignon. "Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-cowards-can-endure-hardship-only-the-brave-64187/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Even cowards can endure hardship; only the brave can endure suspense." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-cowards-can-endure-hardship-only-the-brave-64187/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.













