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Motherhood Quote by Pedro Almodovar

"Even though I love my mother, I didn't want to make an idealized portrait of her. I'm fascinated more by her defects - they are funnier than her other qualities"

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Almodovar’s affection comes with a scalpel. He starts by disarming us with the obligatory piety of “I love my mother,” then immediately refuses the cultural script that demands saintliness. The point isn’t shock; it’s craft. Idealized portraits are dead on arrival because they’re sealed off from narrative friction. Defects, by contrast, generate plot. They make people unpredictable, reactive, capable of embarrassment and contradiction. And for a filmmaker whose cinema runs on melodrama colliding with comedy, “defects” aren’t just tolerable - they’re the engine.

The line also sneaks in a defense of his aesthetic: the belief that tenderness doesn’t require reverence. In Almodovar’s world, love is proven by attention, not by polishing someone into a symbol. The mother figure in Spanish culture can arrive pre-packaged: self-sacrificing, morally legible, untouchable. He punctures that sanctity by insisting on her as a character, not an icon. It’s a subtle rebellion against both familial sentimentality and national Catholic hangovers, the same forces that prefer women either pure or ruined, never richly messy.

Calling defects “funnier” is key. He’s not laughing at her so much as laughing with the human condition - the tiny selfishnesses, hypocrisies, and theatrical overreactions that make a person recognizable. Comedy here becomes intimacy: a way of getting closer to the truth without turning it into a sermon.

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Almodovar, Pedro. (2026, January 16). Even though I love my mother, I didn't want to make an idealized portrait of her. I'm fascinated more by her defects - they are funnier than her other qualities. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-though-i-love-my-mother-i-didnt-want-to-make-85413/

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Almodovar, Pedro. "Even though I love my mother, I didn't want to make an idealized portrait of her. I'm fascinated more by her defects - they are funnier than her other qualities." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-though-i-love-my-mother-i-didnt-want-to-make-85413/.

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"Even though I love my mother, I didn't want to make an idealized portrait of her. I'm fascinated more by her defects - they are funnier than her other qualities." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/even-though-i-love-my-mother-i-didnt-want-to-make-85413/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Pedro Almodovar (born September 24, 1949) is a Director from Spain.

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