"Even when I was Archbishop of Wales and working with new bishops, I used to say, not realising quite how true it was, 'One of the things you will do as a bishop is disappoint people'"
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Leadership, in Rowan Williams's telling, comes with a quiet, almost pastoral inevitability: you will fail people, not because you are careless, but because the job is built to collide with other people's hopes. The line lands because it sounds like gentle mentorship and then, on a second hearing, reads like a confession. "Not realising quite how true it was" is the tell. It's the moment when advice hardens into autobiography.
The specific intent is pragmatic: a warning to new bishops that approval is not a reliable compass. A bishop is a symbolic container for contradictory desires - doctrinal clarity and modern empathy, decisiveness and listening, unity and moral witness. You cannot meet all of those demands at once. So disappointment isn't a bug in the system; it's the system's feedback loop.
The subtext is more bracing: disappointment is also a spiritual discipline, both for the disappointed and the one disappointing. Williams, a theologian who has lived the Church's internal culture wars up close, hints at the cost of trying to keep everyone happy. In ecclesial politics, pleasing one faction can feel like betraying another; refusing to choose can feel like betrayal to all. His phrasing makes room for vulnerability without collapsing into self-pity.
Context matters here: as Archbishop of Wales, and later in the shadow of Anglican disputes over authority and inclusion, Williams became a screen onto which many projected their ideal church. He punctures that fantasy with a single, humane sentence: the office will be blamed for what reality can't deliver.
The specific intent is pragmatic: a warning to new bishops that approval is not a reliable compass. A bishop is a symbolic container for contradictory desires - doctrinal clarity and modern empathy, decisiveness and listening, unity and moral witness. You cannot meet all of those demands at once. So disappointment isn't a bug in the system; it's the system's feedback loop.
The subtext is more bracing: disappointment is also a spiritual discipline, both for the disappointed and the one disappointing. Williams, a theologian who has lived the Church's internal culture wars up close, hints at the cost of trying to keep everyone happy. In ecclesial politics, pleasing one faction can feel like betraying another; refusing to choose can feel like betrayal to all. His phrasing makes room for vulnerability without collapsing into self-pity.
Context matters here: as Archbishop of Wales, and later in the shadow of Anglican disputes over authority and inclusion, Williams became a screen onto which many projected their ideal church. He punctures that fantasy with a single, humane sentence: the office will be blamed for what reality can't deliver.
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