"Eventually you can get into the nuts and bolts of reality: nurturing, caring, and getting along"
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“Nuts and bolts” is a sly phrase for a pop musician to use: it sounds like hardware-store pragmatism, not glitter and chorus hooks. That’s the point. Jody Watley frames “reality” not as a grim comedown from art or fantasy, but as something you can build with your hands. The line carries a quiet rebuke to the idea that adulthood is all hustle, cynicism, and transactional relationships. Her version of the real world is stubbornly soft: nurturing, caring, getting along. Those aren’t sentimental add-ons; they’re the actual infrastructure.
The intent feels like a recalibration, the kind that comes after a culture bingeing on image and speed. Watley emerged from the 1980s and early ’90s pop ecosystem, an era that sold aspiration and attitude as survival tools. Against that backdrop, “eventually” does heavy lifting. It implies a journey through performance, desire, and ambition before arriving at the backstage truth: connection is maintenance work. “Nuts and bolts” also suggests these virtues are learnable skills, not vague morals. You practice them the way you practice choreography.
The subtext is almost political in its modesty. In a celebrity economy that rewards spectacle, Watley elevates the unphotogenic labor that keeps communities and relationships functional. She’s not romanticizing harmony; she’s naming it as a discipline. Reality, in her telling, is less a crash and more a craft.
The intent feels like a recalibration, the kind that comes after a culture bingeing on image and speed. Watley emerged from the 1980s and early ’90s pop ecosystem, an era that sold aspiration and attitude as survival tools. Against that backdrop, “eventually” does heavy lifting. It implies a journey through performance, desire, and ambition before arriving at the backstage truth: connection is maintenance work. “Nuts and bolts” also suggests these virtues are learnable skills, not vague morals. You practice them the way you practice choreography.
The subtext is almost political in its modesty. In a celebrity economy that rewards spectacle, Watley elevates the unphotogenic labor that keeps communities and relationships functional. She’s not romanticizing harmony; she’s naming it as a discipline. Reality, in her telling, is less a crash and more a craft.
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