"Every adolescent has that dream every century has that dream every revolutionary has that dream, to destroy the family"
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The phrase "destroy the family" lands like a provocation because it borrows the language of reactionary fear (the family as civilization’s last wall) while refusing to clarify whether destruction is monstrous or necessary. Stein’s subtext is that the family is not merely a cozy unit but a training ground for obedience, a machine that reproduces taste, class, gender roles, and inheritance. Wanting to smash it is, in this view, a desire to interrupt the loop. Yet she also implies a suspicion of revolutionary melodrama: the urge can be immature, overconfident, more fantasy than program.
Context matters. Writing out of a modernist milieu that challenged Victorian domesticity, and living openly with Alice B. Toklas, Stein knew the family as both social mandate and exclusionary gate. Her line works because it keeps two truths in tension: that rebellion begins at home, and that history’s loudest promises can sound eerily like a slammed bedroom door.
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Stein, Gertrude. (2026, January 15). Every adolescent has that dream every century has that dream every revolutionary has that dream, to destroy the family. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-adolescent-has-that-dream-every-century-has-14559/
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Stein, Gertrude. "Every adolescent has that dream every century has that dream every revolutionary has that dream, to destroy the family." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-adolescent-has-that-dream-every-century-has-14559/.
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"Every adolescent has that dream every century has that dream every revolutionary has that dream, to destroy the family." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-adolescent-has-that-dream-every-century-has-14559/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









