"Every lie is two lies - the lie we tell others and the lie we tell ourselves to justify it"
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The subtext is that self-deception isn’t a side effect of lying; it’s the fuel. Most people can tolerate being strategic, defensive, polite, or opportunistic. Few can tolerate being “a liar.” So we manufacture a rationale: I did it to protect them, to keep the peace, because they wouldn’t understand, because everyone does it, because the system forced my hand. The phrasing “to justify it” is the pressure point. Justification isn’t aimed at the audience; it’s aimed at the conscience.
Contextually, Brault writes in a late-20th/early-21st-century key where ethics is less about grand sins and more about small compromises repeated until they become personality. The quote fits a culture saturated with branding - personal, professional, political - where storytelling is constant and sincerity is performance-tested. Calling each lie “two lies” is a neat philosophical trick: it turns a moment of deception into a pattern of identity-making. The real damage isn’t that others are misled; it’s that the liar has to live inside a fabricated version of themselves to keep the whole structure standing.
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| Topic | Honesty & Integrity |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brault, Robert. (2026, February 16). Every lie is two lies - the lie we tell others and the lie we tell ourselves to justify it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-lie-is-two-lies-the-lie-we-tell-others-173343/
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Brault, Robert. "Every lie is two lies - the lie we tell others and the lie we tell ourselves to justify it." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-lie-is-two-lies-the-lie-we-tell-others-173343/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Every lie is two lies - the lie we tell others and the lie we tell ourselves to justify it." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-lie-is-two-lies-the-lie-we-tell-others-173343/. Accessed 17 Feb. 2026.















