"Every man, however wise, needs the advice of some sagacious friend in the affairs of life"
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The key move is the phrase “affairs of life.” Plautus isn’t talking about abstract ethics but about practical entanglements: money, status, sex, family obligations, the social games that power the plots of New Comedy. Advice, in this universe, isn’t noble mentorship; it’s a survival tool. The “sagacious friend” functions like the clever slave or street-smart confidant who keeps the lead from stepping on the next rake. Friendship becomes a kind of informal governance: a check on the ego when law, religion, and personal discipline don’t reliably do the job.
Subtextually, the line also deflates masculine autonomy. “Every man” implies a public-facing Roman ideal of self-command, then quietly admits that competence is communal. It’s a neat rhetorical trick: it offers humility without humiliation, making dependence sound like prudence. Plautus isn’t idealizing friendship so much as admitting a harsher truth: life is complicated, and no amount of “wisdom” stops you from being ridiculous without someone nearby to tell you so.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Book of Ancient Wisdom (Bill Bradfield, 2024) modern compilationISBN: 9780486855264 · ID: B2IwEQAAQBAJ
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... Every man , however wise , needs the advice of some sagacious friend in the affairs of life . Plautus You will best serve your friends if you do not wait for them to ask your help but go of your own accord at the crucial moment to lend ... |
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