"Every one of us is different in some way, but for those of us who are more different, we have to put more effort into convincing the less different that we can do the same thing they can, just differently"
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The intent is practical, almost weary. Matlin isn’t arguing for abstract acceptance. She’s naming the extra labor that comes with disability and other visible or stigmatized identities: the performance of competence. The phrase “put more effort into convincing” carries the subtext of a rigged audition, where the “less different” get presumed qualified while the “more different” must build a case file just to be seen as baseline. It’s not an inspirational poster. It’s a critique of how normalcy operates as an invisible credential.
Context matters: Matlin is a deaf actress who broke through in an industry built on sound, speed, and social ease. Hollywood loves “overcoming” stories because they flatter the audience; Matlin’s framing refuses that bargain. She doesn’t ask to be admired for doing the same thing. She points out that the real obstacle is other people’s imagination - the insistence that there’s only one legitimate way to perform, communicate, lead, or succeed. “Just differently” is the punchline and the demand: the standard should be outcome and artistry, not conformity to the dominant method.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Matlin, Marlee. (2026, January 16). Every one of us is different in some way, but for those of us who are more different, we have to put more effort into convincing the less different that we can do the same thing they can, just differently. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-one-of-us-is-different-in-some-way-but-for-108029/
Chicago Style
Matlin, Marlee. "Every one of us is different in some way, but for those of us who are more different, we have to put more effort into convincing the less different that we can do the same thing they can, just differently." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-one-of-us-is-different-in-some-way-but-for-108029/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Every one of us is different in some way, but for those of us who are more different, we have to put more effort into convincing the less different that we can do the same thing they can, just differently." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-one-of-us-is-different-in-some-way-but-for-108029/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






