"Every time I flicked channels, there I was, talking. I was talking too much and writing too little. So Naomi and I went to Hawaii. The phone was cut off and we lost touch. This gave me the chance to have a good think about my life"
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The blunt accounting - "talking too much and writing too little" - is craft talk disguised as moral talk. It is an admission that attention can become a substitute for output, that being "a writer" can curdle into being "a personality who used to write". The subtext is professional fear: the worry that the self you perform for interviews starts colonizing the self who sits down and makes pages.
Hawaii is not just escape, it is a controlled experiment: remove the phone, sever the feed, see what is left. Cutting off contact reads as half retreat, half detox, with Naomi as co-conspirator in boundary-making. "We lost touch" is phrased almost casually, but it is the most radical act in the passage: a deliberate disappearance in a culture that rewards constant presence.
The final sentence pivots to reinvention, but keeps its restraint. "A good think" is plainspoken, even a little comic, underplaying what is likely a crisis of identity. He makes the reset sound ordinary because the modern embarrassment is needing one at all.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eszterhas, Joe. (2026, January 16). Every time I flicked channels, there I was, talking. I was talking too much and writing too little. So Naomi and I went to Hawaii. The phone was cut off and we lost touch. This gave me the chance to have a good think about my life. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-time-i-flicked-channels-there-i-was-talking-86338/
Chicago Style
Eszterhas, Joe. "Every time I flicked channels, there I was, talking. I was talking too much and writing too little. So Naomi and I went to Hawaii. The phone was cut off and we lost touch. This gave me the chance to have a good think about my life." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-time-i-flicked-channels-there-i-was-talking-86338/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Every time I flicked channels, there I was, talking. I was talking too much and writing too little. So Naomi and I went to Hawaii. The phone was cut off and we lost touch. This gave me the chance to have a good think about my life." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/every-time-i-flicked-channels-there-i-was-talking-86338/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






