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"Everybody hates me because I'm so universally liked"

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De Vries spikes the American hunger for applause with a line that pretends to be a complaint and turns out to be a confession. "Everybody hates me" is the melodramatic cry of the aggrieved ego; "because I'm so universally liked" flips it into a paradox that exposes how self-pity can be another form of bragging. The joke isn’t just wordplay. It’s an anatomy lesson: the speaker can only imagine hostility as a response to their own radiance. Even persecution gets converted into proof of popularity.

The intent is satirical, aimed at a social world where being liked is treated as moral credential and social capital. "Universally" is doing heavy lifting: it’s the grandiose fantasy of total approval, the kind of claim that invites suspicion because real consensus is rare and usually manufactured. The subtext is a small, venomous truth about status anxiety: admiration doesn’t soothe insecurity; it sharpens it. If you define yourself by applause, you start hearing boos in the silence, and you read criticism as envy. The speaker wants to be envied almost as much as they want to be loved.

De Vries wrote in a mid-century culture increasingly organized around publicity, personas, and the soft tyranny of being "well-liked". The line anticipates a modern phenomenon: the influencer’s martyr complex, where attention becomes both proof of worth and a reason to feel victimized. It lands because it captures a familiar pose - humility as camouflage for vanity - and it does so with a scalpel, not a sermon.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Vries, Peter De. (2026, January 15). Everybody hates me because I'm so universally liked. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-hates-me-because-im-so-universally-liked-163676/

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Vries, Peter De. "Everybody hates me because I'm so universally liked." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-hates-me-because-im-so-universally-liked-163676/.

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"Everybody hates me because I'm so universally liked." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-hates-me-because-im-so-universally-liked-163676/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Peter De Vries (February 27, 1910 - September 28, 1993) was a Novelist from USA.

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