"Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same - hardihood. Give them raw truth"
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The craft is in the absolutism. “Everybody” is a rhetorical overreach that signals impatience with nuance and a willingness to bully the reader into self-recognition: if you flinch at conflict, you’re already in the indictment. Chapman pairs politics and “social life” to argue that avoidance is not merely a Washington problem; it’s dinner-table culture, workplace culture, the small courtesies that harden into habits of silence. His remedy, “hardihood,” is an old word for an old virtue: stamina, toughness, the capacity to stay in the room when the temperature rises.
“Give them raw truth” is doing double duty. It flatters truth-tellers as surgeons cutting through rot, while implying the public has been living on cooked, sweetened narratives: slogans, euphemisms, the soothing lie that no one needs to be offended for anything to change. As a poet-intellectual writing in an era rattled by industrial upheaval, class conflict, and reform movements, Chapman is arguing for a democratic adulthood. Conflict, in his view, isn’t a pathology. It’s the price of honesty, and the only plausible route to reform.
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Chapman, John Jay. (2026, January 15). Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same - hardihood. Give them raw truth. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-in-america-is-soft-and-hates-conflict-155042/
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Chapman, John Jay. "Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same - hardihood. Give them raw truth." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-in-america-is-soft-and-hates-conflict-155042/.
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"Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same - hardihood. Give them raw truth." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-in-america-is-soft-and-hates-conflict-155042/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.











