"Everybody is just a stranger, but that's the danger in going my own way"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Mayer: emotionally articulate, slightly self-incriminating, and allergic to easy bravado. “Everybody is just a stranger” reads like a defensive mantra, something you tell yourself to make distance feel controlled. Then he punctures it with “but that’s the danger,” an instant reversal that confesses what the mantra can’t fix. The danger isn’t strangers, it’s the slow numbing that happens when your life becomes a series of rooms where no one knows your history.
Contextually, it fits Mayer’s long-running persona of the successful drifter: the guy who can sell out arenas but still narrates love and identity like an unsolved case. This is pop songwriting doing what it does best: compressing a modern anxiety (self-actualization as social severance) into a line that sounds casual enough to sing, and sharp enough to recognize yourself in.
Quote Details
| Topic | Loneliness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Mayer, John. (2026, January 15). Everybody is just a stranger, but that's the danger in going my own way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-is-just-a-stranger-but-thats-the-danger-106962/
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Mayer, John. "Everybody is just a stranger, but that's the danger in going my own way." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-is-just-a-stranger-but-thats-the-danger-106962/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everybody is just a stranger, but that's the danger in going my own way." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-is-just-a-stranger-but-thats-the-danger-106962/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








