"Everybody loves success, but they hate successful people"
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Coming from McEnroe, the subtext is personal, not abstract. He was adored for his talent and detested for his temperament, a walking conflict between excellence and likability. Tennis, with its country-club manners and “proper” applause, is especially allergic to the idea that dominance might come packaged with ego, rage, or unapologetic self-belief. His quote is a defense and an accusation: if you ask athletes to be ruthless enough to win, don’t act shocked when they don’t perform humility on command.
The intent isn’t to complain that people are jealous; it’s to name the social function of resentment. Successful people disrupt the comforting myth that anyone could have done it. They turn vague aspiration into a scoreboard. That forces bystanders to pick an explanation: admire the work and feel smaller by comparison, or find a character flaw that makes the winner “deserve” the backlash. “They hate successful people” is shorthand for the way we police winners into being palatable: win, but not too often; shine, but don’t glare; celebrate, but only in ways that reassure everyone else.
McEnroe’s insight still reads like a key to modern fame: we binge the triumph, then punish the person for not being a symbol.
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