"Everybody loves success, but they hate successful people"
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Success is the clean, photogenic part of ambition; successful people are the messy evidence of it. McEnroe’s line lands because it exposes a cultural bait-and-switch: we cheer the highlight reel, then flinch at the human being who keeps winning. The crowd wants the outcome without the inconvenient reminder that outcomes have owners.
Coming from McEnroe, the subtext is personal, not abstract. He was adored for his talent and detested for his temperament, a walking conflict between excellence and likability. Tennis, with its country-club manners and “proper” applause, is especially allergic to the idea that dominance might come packaged with ego, rage, or unapologetic self-belief. His quote is a defense and an accusation: if you ask athletes to be ruthless enough to win, don’t act shocked when they don’t perform humility on command.
The intent isn’t to complain that people are jealous; it’s to name the social function of resentment. Successful people disrupt the comforting myth that anyone could have done it. They turn vague aspiration into a scoreboard. That forces bystanders to pick an explanation: admire the work and feel smaller by comparison, or find a character flaw that makes the winner “deserve” the backlash. “They hate successful people” is shorthand for the way we police winners into being palatable: win, but not too often; shine, but don’t glare; celebrate, but only in ways that reassure everyone else.
McEnroe’s insight still reads like a key to modern fame: we binge the triumph, then punish the person for not being a symbol.
Coming from McEnroe, the subtext is personal, not abstract. He was adored for his talent and detested for his temperament, a walking conflict between excellence and likability. Tennis, with its country-club manners and “proper” applause, is especially allergic to the idea that dominance might come packaged with ego, rage, or unapologetic self-belief. His quote is a defense and an accusation: if you ask athletes to be ruthless enough to win, don’t act shocked when they don’t perform humility on command.
The intent isn’t to complain that people are jealous; it’s to name the social function of resentment. Successful people disrupt the comforting myth that anyone could have done it. They turn vague aspiration into a scoreboard. That forces bystanders to pick an explanation: admire the work and feel smaller by comparison, or find a character flaw that makes the winner “deserve” the backlash. “They hate successful people” is shorthand for the way we police winners into being palatable: win, but not too often; shine, but don’t glare; celebrate, but only in ways that reassure everyone else.
McEnroe’s insight still reads like a key to modern fame: we binge the triumph, then punish the person for not being a symbol.
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| Topic | Success |
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