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Life's Pleasures Quote by Mariel Hemingway

"Everybody needs a way out of that pain. Many people choose drugs and alcohol. Some people obsessively exercise or develop strange dietary habits, which is what I did. At least it got me toward a path of healthier living"

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Pain is the engine here, not vanity. Hemingway frames self-destructive behavior as a universal escape hatch, then quietly rearranges the moral hierarchy of coping: drugs and alcohol sit in the cultural penalty box, while “obsessively exercise” and “strange dietary habits” get filed as the socially approved vices. That pivot is the point. She’s admitting dysfunction without letting the listener dismiss her as reckless; she’s choosing the kind of damage that reads as discipline.

The subtext is a critique of how we reward certain compulsions because they look productive. When someone drinks to numb out, we call it a problem. When someone runs themselves into the ground or micromanages food, we hand them compliments, brand deals, and a narrative of “wellness.” Her phrasing makes the compulsion sound almost reasonable: “Everybody needs a way out.” It’s a soft absolution, but also an indictment of a culture that leaves people improvising anesthesia.

“As I did” lands like a confession delivered in plain clothes. No melodrama, no clinical vocabulary, just the blunt recognition that “healthy living” can start from an unhealthy place. The final line is doing careful PR and something more honest: it separates outcomes from motives. Yes, it “got” her toward health, but it didn’t begin as health. It began as pain management. In that gap is a whole era of celebrity fitness culture, where control becomes a surrogate for stability and the body becomes the most acceptable place to store chaos.

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Hemingway, Mariel. (2026, January 16). Everybody needs a way out of that pain. Many people choose drugs and alcohol. Some people obsessively exercise or develop strange dietary habits, which is what I did. At least it got me toward a path of healthier living. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-needs-a-way-out-of-that-pain-many-93566/

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Hemingway, Mariel. "Everybody needs a way out of that pain. Many people choose drugs and alcohol. Some people obsessively exercise or develop strange dietary habits, which is what I did. At least it got me toward a path of healthier living." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-needs-a-way-out-of-that-pain-many-93566/.

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"Everybody needs a way out of that pain. Many people choose drugs and alcohol. Some people obsessively exercise or develop strange dietary habits, which is what I did. At least it got me toward a path of healthier living." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-needs-a-way-out-of-that-pain-many-93566/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mariel Hemingway (born November 22, 1961) is a Actress from USA.

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