"Everybody should have his personal sounds to listen for - sounds that will make him exhilarated and alive or quiet and calm"
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The phrasing does quiet work. Not “favorite songs,” but “sounds” widens the frame to the everyday: a radiator’s hiss, a subway rhythm, a baseball game on the radio, the particular hush of snow. It turns taste into a kind of emotional emergency kit. Kostelanetz is pointing to sound as a portable technology for mood regulation long before “wellness” became an industry and algorithms started predicting our feelings back at us.
The gendered “his” dates the quote, but the idea is strikingly contemporary: curate what restores you, and guard it. The subtext is that modern life is noisy in the political sense too - crowded with demands, sales pitches, and other people’s urgency. “Listen for” implies intention, even vigilance. Your “personal sounds” are small, repeatable acts of resistance: choosing what enters your head, and letting it change your body.
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| Topic | Music |
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Kostelanetz, Andre. (n.d.). Everybody should have his personal sounds to listen for - sounds that will make him exhilarated and alive or quiet and calm. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-should-have-his-personal-sounds-to-122936/
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Kostelanetz, Andre. "Everybody should have his personal sounds to listen for - sounds that will make him exhilarated and alive or quiet and calm." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-should-have-his-personal-sounds-to-122936/.
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"Everybody should have his personal sounds to listen for - sounds that will make him exhilarated and alive or quiet and calm." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-should-have-his-personal-sounds-to-122936/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.












