"Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect"
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The subtext is Hollywood-adjacent but not Hollywood-naive. Coming from a director who’s spent a life shaping stories and public narratives, it reads as a correction to the fantasy that culture shifts purely through messaging. Reiner suggests the opposite: culture changes when people change their habits, reactions, integrity, and capacity for empathy - the stuff that never trends. “And that’s a lot” is doing heavy lifting, acknowledging that self-transformation is not a tidy montage but an ongoing, sometimes humiliating process.
The final phrase, “ripple effect,” offers a pragmatic optimism. Not the ego-driven belief that one person can save the world, but the quieter truth that character is contagious: calmer people de-escalate rooms, honest people raise standards, repaired people stop passing damage along. It’s a political statement smuggled into personal language: the most credible reform starts where excuses die, because that’s where behavior actually changes.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reiner, Rob. (2026, January 15). Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-talks-about-wanting-to-change-things-106152/
Chicago Style
Reiner, Rob. "Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-talks-about-wanting-to-change-things-106152/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everybody talks about wanting to change things and help and fix, but ultimately all you can do is fix yourself. And that's a lot. Because if you can fix yourself, it has a ripple effect." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybody-talks-about-wanting-to-change-things-106152/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








