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Politics & Power Quote by James A. Baldwin

"Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality"

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Baldwin doesn’t ask permission; he changes the terms of the argument. By opening with “Everybody’s journey is individual,” he frames desire as lived experience, not ideology. The deliberately plain follow-up - “If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy” - refuses euphemism and refuses melodrama. It’s a sentence with the moral confidence of a shrug: love happens, and the person narrating it doesn’t owe anyone a defense brief.

Then comes the pivot, and it’s pure Baldwin: a reversal that turns accusation into diagnosis. Calling homosexuality a “disease” isn’t treated as a neutral opinion but as evidence of the accuser’s inner disorder. The line “says more about them than it does about homosexuality” is less a comeback than a method. Baldwin is always interested in what America’s obsessions reveal about America: its terror of difference, its need to police bodies, its habit of disguising fear as morality.

The subtext is that “disease” is a social technology. It medicalizes what it wants to punish, outsourcing prejudice to pseudo-science so the punisher can feel clean. Baldwin, writing in a mid-century United States still steeped in psychiatric pathologizing and legal repression, recognizes that stigma isn’t just insult; it’s infrastructure. His intent is not simply to normalize queer love, but to expose the national psyche that requires queer people as a scapegoat - and to insist that the real pathology is the hunger to label other people’s intimacy as contamination.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Baldwin, James A. (2026, January 17). Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybodys-journey-is-individual-if-you-fall-in-31741/

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Baldwin, James A. "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybodys-journey-is-individual-if-you-fall-in-31741/.

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"Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everybodys-journey-is-individual-if-you-fall-in-31741/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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James A. Baldwin

James A. Baldwin (August 2, 1924 - December 1, 1987) was a Author from USA.

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