"Everyone I used to play with has either given up or is dead"
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The specific intent feels both private and pointed. Sondheim, who made an art form out of rhyme as engineering and emotion as ambush, chooses an almost childlike syntax. That simplicity is the knife. “Used to” signals a break in continuity; “either/or” reduces complex lives to two fates, surrender or extinction. It’s cynicism without flourish, the kind earned by outliving your cohort in a business that worships the new while quietly exhausting the old.
Context matters: Sondheim’s work is obsessed with the costs of desire, the bargains we strike with ambition, the way time turns choices into traps. This line reads like a late-career aside from someone who spent decades collaborating, revising, sparring, laughing - and then watching the room empty out. Underneath is a challenge: if play is what makes the work worth doing, what happens when the playmates disappear? The quote doesn’t ask for pity. It dares you to keep going anyway, to keep “playing” as an act of defiance against both burnout and the finality that waits for everyone.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Sondheim, Stephen. (2026, January 16). Everyone I used to play with has either given up or is dead. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-i-used-to-play-with-has-either-given-up-102679/
Chicago Style
Sondheim, Stephen. "Everyone I used to play with has either given up or is dead." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-i-used-to-play-with-has-either-given-up-102679/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everyone I used to play with has either given up or is dead." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-i-used-to-play-with-has-either-given-up-102679/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


