"Everyone likes flattery; and when you come to Royalty you should lay it on with a trowel"
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Coming from Disraeli, this is less a cheap joke than a field report from the heart of Victorian politics, where the crown still carried immense symbolic weight and where access - to the sovereign, to patronage, to legitimacy - could hinge on tone as much as policy. As a politician who cultivated Queen Victoria while also navigating party warfare and a widening electorate, Disraeli understood that monarchy worked as theatre and that theatre had stage directions. The court expects homage; the savvy operator delivers it with a knowing wink.
The subtext is mildly cynical but not nihilistic. Disraeli isn’t condemning flattery as moral rot so much as acknowledging it as currency in a hierarchy that runs on ritual. There’s also a democratic sting: if “everyone” likes flattery, the difference with royalty is scale, not nature. Kings and queens are not above human vanity; they’re simply surrounded by professionals trained to monetize it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
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| Source | Later attribution: May I Quote You on That? (Stephen Spector, 2015) modern compilationISBN: 9780190215293 · ID: 0KygCQAAQBAJ
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... Everyone likes flattery; and when you come to Royalty you should lay it on with a trowel.” Benjamin Disraeli, ca. 1880 (attributed to Matthew Arnold), quoted in G. W. E. Russell, Collections and Recollections (1898) “If all the ... |
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"Everyone likes flattery; and when you come to Royalty you should lay it on with a trowel." FixQuotes, 8 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyone-likes-flattery-and-when-you-come-to-18620/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.











