"Everyone's a pacifist between wars. It's like being a vegetarian between meals"
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The intent is less to mock pacifism than to indict its fair-weather version: the posture of nonviolence as social accessory, worn when the stakes are abstract and discarded when fear, revenge, or nationalism offers a more satisfying meal. McCarthy, an activist steeped in antiwar and nonviolent traditions, knows that public opinion reliably “discovers” peace after the bloodletting and “forgets” it the moment a new enemy is named. His metaphor makes that amnesia feel petty and animal: our principles shrink under pressure, our ethics conveniently timed.
Subtext: societies treat war the way many people treat diet - as something you manage rhetorically, not structurally. You say you’re against it, but you keep the pantry stocked: weapons budgets, violent policing, heroic war stories, a politics that rewards toughness. The line’s cynicism is strategic. It dares the listener to prove they’re not just a pacifist in the lull, but someone willing to stay “vegetarian” when the room starts smelling like cooked meat.
Quote Details
| Topic | Peace |
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| Source | Later attribution: The Quotable A**hole (Eric Grzymkowski, 2011) modern compilationISBN: 9781440529078 · ID: lObrDQAAQBAJ
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