Skip to main content

Time & Perspective Quote by Kate Moss

"Everyone's projecting onto you, or you feel like everyone is judging you. I feel like I'm being judged a lot of the time. You become really self-conscious"

About this Quote

Fame doesn’t just put you on display; it turns you into a screen. Kate Moss’s line is blunt about a psychological trap that’s especially vicious for someone whose job is to be looked at: you can’t tell where other people’s perceptions end and your own anxiety begins. “Everyone’s projecting onto you” is quietly devastating because it shifts the power dynamic. The onlooker isn’t simply observing; they’re authoring a story about you, using your face and body as raw material. In modeling, that’s not a metaphor. It’s literally the labor.

The quote also exposes how judgment becomes ambient, like background noise you can’t switch off. Moss toggles between “everyone is judging you” and “you feel like everyone is judging you,” admitting the ambiguity: maybe it’s real scrutiny, maybe it’s internalized. That wobble is the point. When you’re famous for an image, perception is both external fact and internal habit. Even privacy becomes performative.

Context matters: Moss’s career helped define an era obsessed with “cool” as a kind of aesthetic detachment, a pose that implies effortlessness. Here she punctures that myth. “You become really self-conscious” is almost anti-glamour, a deflation of the fashion fantasy. The subtext is that constant visibility doesn’t produce confidence; it can produce hypervigilance. The culture demands a muse; the person inside the image gets stuck doing quality control on how they’re being consumed.

Quote Details

TopicAnxiety
SourceHelp us find the source
Cite

Citation Formats

APA Style (7th ed.)
Moss, Kate. (2026, January 16). Everyone's projecting onto you, or you feel like everyone is judging you. I feel like I'm being judged a lot of the time. You become really self-conscious. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyones-projecting-onto-you-or-you-feel-like-94606/

Chicago Style
Moss, Kate. "Everyone's projecting onto you, or you feel like everyone is judging you. I feel like I'm being judged a lot of the time. You become really self-conscious." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyones-projecting-onto-you-or-you-feel-like-94606/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everyone's projecting onto you, or you feel like everyone is judging you. I feel like I'm being judged a lot of the time. You become really self-conscious." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everyones-projecting-onto-you-or-you-feel-like-94606/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.

More Quotes by Kate Add to List
Kate Moss on Projection, Judgment, and Self-Consciousness
Click to enlarge Portrait | Landscape

About the Author

England Flag

Kate Moss (born January 16, 1974) is a Model from England.

44 more quotes available

View Profile

Similar Quotes

Sydney Schanberg, Journalist
Sydney Schanberg