"Everything is as it was, I discover when I reach my destination, and everything has changed"
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Then Frayn flips the blade: "and everything has changed". The sentence performs its own contradiction, forcing two truths to coexist. The place can be identical and still feel newly alien because the person who left is no longer the same person who returns. Even if nothing external shifted, time passed. Memory edited the original. Expectations inflated. The self, like a stage set between acts, has been subtly re-dressed.
As a playwright, Frayn knows how to make meaning from timing and perspective. The line reads like a stage direction for adulthood: the set remains, the lighting changes, and suddenly the familiar becomes charged. It also hints at the bleak comedy of seeking transformation through movement - tourism as self-mythology, relocation as a promise to outrun yourself. The destination exposes the lie: you can’t overhaul reality by switching backdrops. Yet you also can’t step back into the same reality unchanged. The world’s sameness is precisely what reveals your difference.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frayn, Michael. (2026, January 16). Everything is as it was, I discover when I reach my destination, and everything has changed. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-is-as-it-was-i-discover-when-i-reach-93846/
Chicago Style
Frayn, Michael. "Everything is as it was, I discover when I reach my destination, and everything has changed." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-is-as-it-was-i-discover-when-i-reach-93846/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everything is as it was, I discover when I reach my destination, and everything has changed." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-is-as-it-was-i-discover-when-i-reach-93846/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.









