"Everything passes. Nobody gets anything for keeps. And that's how we've got to live"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Murakami: a calm voice saying something bleak while smuggling in a kind of relief. If nothing is for keeps, then failure doesn’t get to be final either. The line carries the muted resilience of his characters, people who drift through loss, odd coincidences, and quiet ruptures, learning to keep moving without the dramatic moral payoff most stories promise. The point isn’t to “accept change” in a self-help way; it’s to stop building your life around the fantasy of ownership - of people, of moments, even of your own identity.
“And that’s how we’ve got to live” is the hard pivot from observation to mandate. Not “should,” not “might,” but “got to”: a practical ethic for modern life, where the floor keeps shifting. Murakami’s genius here is the tone - plain, almost conversational - making a severe truth feel usable, like advice you can carry in your pocket rather than a philosophy that sits on a shelf.
Quote Details
| Topic | Letting Go |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Murakami, Haruki. (2026, January 15). Everything passes. Nobody gets anything for keeps. And that's how we've got to live. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-passes-nobody-gets-anything-for-keeps-130953/
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Murakami, Haruki. "Everything passes. Nobody gets anything for keeps. And that's how we've got to live." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-passes-nobody-gets-anything-for-keeps-130953/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Everything passes. Nobody gets anything for keeps. And that's how we've got to live." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-passes-nobody-gets-anything-for-keeps-130953/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.









