"Everything that's realistic has some sort of ugliness in it. Even a flower is ugly when it wilts, a bird when it seeks its prey, the ocean when it becomes violent"
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Her examples are doing stealthy cultural labor. A wilting flower punctures the romance economy that sells blossoms as eternal devotion. A bird “seeking its prey” drags nature out of postcard innocence and back into appetite and violence. The ocean “when it becomes violent” exposes how quickly awe becomes threat, how the sublime is just beauty with consequences. Tate’s realism isn’t gritty urbanism; it’s the recognition that even the soft-focus icons contain predation, decay, and rage.
Coming from an actress in the 1960s, the subtext lands harder: an industry built on controlled surfaces, on youth held in suspension, on women made to look effortless and untouched by time. It’s a quiet rebuttal to the idea that glamour equals truth. Tate isn’t glamorizing ugliness; she’s naming the price of honesty. If you insist on realism, you inherit the whole ecosystem, not just the flattering angle. That’s not cynicism for its own sake - it’s a defense against being fooled by “natural” beauty that’s been edited into a lie.
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Tate, Sharon. (2026, January 16). Everything that's realistic has some sort of ugliness in it. Even a flower is ugly when it wilts, a bird when it seeks its prey, the ocean when it becomes violent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-thats-realistic-has-some-sort-of-135303/
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Tate, Sharon. "Everything that's realistic has some sort of ugliness in it. Even a flower is ugly when it wilts, a bird when it seeks its prey, the ocean when it becomes violent." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-thats-realistic-has-some-sort-of-135303/.
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"Everything that's realistic has some sort of ugliness in it. Even a flower is ugly when it wilts, a bird when it seeks its prey, the ocean when it becomes violent." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/everything-thats-realistic-has-some-sort-of-135303/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.











