Life & Wisdom Quote by Nikki Giovanni

Change is not the drama here; it is the baseline. Giovanni’s line refuses the comforting fantasy that stability is an option, then narrows the field to a harder, more indicting choice: will you metabolize change into maturity, or will you let it rot you from the inside out? The bluntness is the point. It’s a poet’s version of a door slamming shut on excuses.

The phrasing carries a double edge. “Everything will change” reads like prophecy, but it also sounds like a warning issued by someone who has watched history grind on regardless of individual preference. Giovanni came of age amid Civil Rights upheaval, Black Power urgency, and the long aftermath of American promises made and broken. In that context, change isn’t self-help; it’s political weather. You can adapt with clarity and intention, or you can be eroded by cynicism, fear, nostalgia, and the slow surrender of your standards.

“Growing up” lands as more than age. It suggests discipline, accountability, and a willingness to revise yourself without betraying yourself. “Decaying,” by contrast, is passive and bodily, an image of neglect: what happens when you stop tending your mind, your relationships, your community. Giovanni’s subtext is ruthless: neutrality is an illusion. If you’re not actively becoming, you’re quietly deteriorating.

That’s why the line works. It compresses a lifetime of personal and civic pressure into a binary that feels unfair because it’s recognizably true. Change will arrive either way; the only agency left is what it turns you into.