"Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you"
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The joke has teeth. It needles the comforting fantasy that someone else can perform your inner life on your behalf: parents, lovers, therapists, institutions, even art itself. They can offer instructions, sympathy, maybe even the water, but they cannot step into your body and make the choice, bear the sensation, endure the boredom, or complete the ritual. The bath becomes a proxy for responsibility: you can’t outsource meaning-making any more than you can outsource your own nakedness.
Context matters because Schwartz’s career is a study in brilliance colliding with fragility - a midcentury poet haunted by ambition, mental illness, and decline. Read that way, the line isn’t just a wry definition; it’s a bleak self-reminder. Existentialism isn’t permission to despair. It’s the insistence that even despair is yours to wash, rinse, and live through.
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| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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Schwartz, Delmore. (2026, January 16). Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/existentialism-means-that-no-one-else-can-take-a-130084/
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Schwartz, Delmore. "Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/existentialism-means-that-no-one-else-can-take-a-130084/.
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"Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/existentialism-means-that-no-one-else-can-take-a-130084/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.










