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"Existentialism means that no one else can take a bath for you"

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Delmore Schwartz turns philosophy into plumbing and, in the process, makes existentialism feel less like a seminar and more like a cold tile floor at 2 a.m. The line works because it refuses the usual existentialist glamour - no smoky cafes, no heroic anguish - and swaps in an image that is embarrassingly bodily, private, and un-delegable. A bath is ordinary, but it is also where you’re most stripped down: alone with your grime, your skin, your thoughts. That’s the subtextual punch. Existentialism, for Schwartz, isn’t an abstract claim about being; it’s the humiliating fact that you personally have to do the cleansing work of living.

The joke has teeth. It needles the comforting fantasy that someone else can perform your inner life on your behalf: parents, lovers, therapists, institutions, even art itself. They can offer instructions, sympathy, maybe even the water, but they cannot step into your body and make the choice, bear the sensation, endure the boredom, or complete the ritual. The bath becomes a proxy for responsibility: you can’t outsource meaning-making any more than you can outsource your own nakedness.

Context matters because Schwartz’s career is a study in brilliance colliding with fragility - a midcentury poet haunted by ambition, mental illness, and decline. Read that way, the line isn’t just a wry definition; it’s a bleak self-reminder. Existentialism isn’t permission to despair. It’s the insistence that even despair is yours to wash, rinse, and live through.

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Delmore Schwartz

Delmore Schwartz (December 8, 1913 - July 11, 1966) was a Poet from USA.

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