"Experience is a good teacher, but she sends in terrific bills"
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The subtext is a quiet indictment of how we romanticize hardship. We tell ourselves that suffering is redeemed by wisdom, that mistakes are investments. Antrim doesn’t deny the learning; she punctures the sales pitch. The lesson arrives bundled with collateral damage: time wasted, relationships strained, pride bruised, money lost, health taxed. In other words, experience teaches by charging admission, then adding fees.
Context matters: Antrim wrote in an era when epigrams were a high-status form of social critique, especially for women writers navigating a culture that expected grace, not bite. Casting experience as “she” slyly mirrors the way women were expected to perform emotional labor - always instructing, always absorbing consequences - while also claiming authority for a female voice that can be sardonic, not simply comforting.
The intent is pragmatic cynicism with a wink: learn if you must, but don’t pretend the curriculum is free.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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