"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing"
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The line also needles Victorian respectability. In a culture obsessed with proper conduct and clean narratives of self-improvement, Wilde implies that the real education is rarely “proper.” Experience is what happens when aesthetics collide with consequence; it’s the aftertaste of risk. The subtext is almost contractual: if you want the insight, you owe the world a mistake. No shortcuts, no refunds.
Coming from a dramatist who specialized in manners as weaponry, “for nothing” is doing extra work. Wilde is allergic to pious thrift; he knew that the most expensive lessons are the ones society insists you learn quietly. Read with his biography in mind-the public scandal, the legal persecution-the aphorism sharpens into something darker than a wink. Experience isn’t just costly; sometimes the bill is cruelty, and the only consolation is that it buys you a clarity no one can hand you for free.
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| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Wilde, Oscar. (2026, January 15). Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-one-thing-you-cant-get-for-nothing-26907/
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Wilde, Oscar. "Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-one-thing-you-cant-get-for-nothing-26907/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Experience is one thing you can't get for nothing." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-one-thing-you-cant-get-for-nothing-26907/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







