"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes"
About this Quote
The intent is double-edged. On the surface, it’s consolation: mistakes are inevitable, even useful. Underneath, it’s an accusation aimed at a culture obsessed with moral earnestness and public respectability. Wilde implies that what society praises as maturity often begins as misjudgment, impulsiveness, or plain stupidity, retroactively reframed as character-building. The line flatters and mocks at once, offering readers the pleasure of self-forgiveness while reminding them how artfully they spin their own narratives.
Context matters: Wilde wrote amid a late-19th-century British world that prized propriety, discipline, and the performance of virtue. His epigrams thrive on puncturing that performance with elegant cynicism. Read with Wilde’s biography in mind, the aphorism gains a darker bass note: the establishment that demanded moral perfection was quick to criminalize human error. “Experience” becomes both coping mechanism and indictment, a reminder that society’s tidy stories about growth often mask a brutal intolerance for the messy way people actually learn.
Quote Details
| Topic | Learning from Mistakes |
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| Source | Later attribution: the Ultimate Book of Quotations (Joseph Demakis, 2012) modern compilation
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APA Style (7th ed.)
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Wilde, Oscar. "Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." FixQuotes. February 7, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-simply-the-name-we-give-our-mistakes-26908/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes." FixQuotes, 7 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-is-simply-the-name-we-give-our-mistakes-26908/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.









