"Experience means conflict, our natures being what they are, and conflict means drama"
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The subtext is a rebuke to any sentimental idea of experience as gentle accumulation - wisdom as a serene harvest. Tate, a poet shaped by the formal pressures of modernism and the cultural pressures of the Southern Agrarians, distrusts the notion that life can be rendered honest without tension. His world is one where inherited loyalties, moral codes, and the modern age don’t reconcile; they grind. That grinding becomes the engine of art. “Drama” isn’t just theater, either. It signals structure: stakes, turning points, irreconcilable desires. In other words, the very stuff poems are made of.
There’s also a sly warning embedded in the elegance. If conflict is synonymous with experience, then a life scrubbed of conflict - the fantasy of perfect comfort, perfect alignment, perfect “growth” - may be less than fully lived, and certainly less than fully tellable. Tate isn’t romanticizing suffering; he’s insisting that meaning shows up when the self meets resistance and has to reveal what it actually values.
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Tate, Allen. "Experience means conflict, our natures being what they are, and conflict means drama." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-means-conflict-our-natures-being-what-42983/.
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"Experience means conflict, our natures being what they are, and conflict means drama." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/experience-means-conflict-our-natures-being-what-42983/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.












