"Experience teaches us that we do not always receive the blessings we ask for in prayer"
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Prayer, in Mary Baker Eddy's hands, isn't a cosmic vending machine; it's a diagnostic tool. "Experience teaches us" opens with a cool, almost empirical authority, as if the laboratory of lived life has already run the experiment and published the results. That phrasing matters: she drags religion out of pure sentiment and into proof, a move consistent with a theologian who built Christian Science on the claim that spiritual laws are knowable and, in a sense, testable.
The line pivots on "blessings". Eddy doesn't deny prayer's power; she reframes the category of what counts as an answer. The subtext is pastoral but firm: if you're praying for a specific outcome and it doesn't arrive, the failure isn't necessarily God's indifference. It's your misunderstanding of what you truly need, or what "good" actually is. That subtly dethrones the ego at the center of petitionary prayer. You're not negotiating with the divine; you're being corrected by it.
The insistence on "ask for" also suggests a critique of transactional faith. Eddy wrote in a 19th-century America saturated with revivalism and self-help optimism, where religion could slide into sanctified wish-fulfillment. Her sentence interrupts that cultural habit. It warns that disappointment is not evidence against spirituality but part of its education: prayer changes the petitioner before it changes the situation. Even the sting of unmet requests becomes instruction, a way of learning that blessing isn't always identical to relief, and that the most meaningful answers can arrive disguised as refusal.
The line pivots on "blessings". Eddy doesn't deny prayer's power; she reframes the category of what counts as an answer. The subtext is pastoral but firm: if you're praying for a specific outcome and it doesn't arrive, the failure isn't necessarily God's indifference. It's your misunderstanding of what you truly need, or what "good" actually is. That subtly dethrones the ego at the center of petitionary prayer. You're not negotiating with the divine; you're being corrected by it.
The insistence on "ask for" also suggests a critique of transactional faith. Eddy wrote in a 19th-century America saturated with revivalism and self-help optimism, where religion could slide into sanctified wish-fulfillment. Her sentence interrupts that cultural habit. It warns that disappointment is not evidence against spirituality but part of its education: prayer changes the petitioner before it changes the situation. Even the sting of unmet requests becomes instruction, a way of learning that blessing isn't always identical to relief, and that the most meaningful answers can arrive disguised as refusal.
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