"Facing the press is not easy, but because you have to go, you have to try to take a lot of positive things for yourself from these face-to-face meetings"
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Mourinho treats the press conference like an away match: you may not like the turf, but you still have to play it. The line is framed as self-help, yet it’s really a survival manual for a job where narrative is as consequential as tactics. “Facing the press is not easy” isn’t vulnerability so much as calibration; he’s reminding everyone that this is labor, not leisure, and that any slip becomes tomorrow’s headline.
The real tell is “because you have to go.” That blunt fatalism is Mourinho’s brand of realism: the modern coach isn’t just a training-ground strategist but a full-time public character, obliged to perform contrition, confidence, and clarity on command. The subtext is power management. Pressers are one of the few arenas where a manager can’t fully control the conditions, so the goal becomes extracting “positive things” - information, leverage, a chance to set the frame before someone else does.
“Face-to-face meetings” also softens the adversarial image. He’s recasting a potentially hostile scrum as something closer to diplomacy: direct contact, mutual recognition, a chance to read the room. In Mourinho’s world, the press is both opponent and instrument. He’s not preaching openness; he’s preaching composure. Take what you can, give away as little as necessary, and leave with the story angled slightly your way.
The real tell is “because you have to go.” That blunt fatalism is Mourinho’s brand of realism: the modern coach isn’t just a training-ground strategist but a full-time public character, obliged to perform contrition, confidence, and clarity on command. The subtext is power management. Pressers are one of the few arenas where a manager can’t fully control the conditions, so the goal becomes extracting “positive things” - information, leverage, a chance to set the frame before someone else does.
“Face-to-face meetings” also softens the adversarial image. He’s recasting a potentially hostile scrum as something closer to diplomacy: direct contact, mutual recognition, a chance to read the room. In Mourinho’s world, the press is both opponent and instrument. He’s not preaching openness; he’s preaching composure. Take what you can, give away as little as necessary, and leave with the story angled slightly your way.
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