"Fame - a few words upon a tombstone, and the truth of those not to be depended on"
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The second clause is the knife. "And the truth of those not to be depended on" targets the memoir-industrial complex of the 19th century: biographical dictionaries, obituary prose, pious tributes, and civic mythmaking that sand down contradictions into something printable. Epitaphs aren't written to be accurate; they're written to be acceptable. They flatter the family, satisfy the community, and tidy up a life into a moral. Bovee isn't just skeptical of fame's permanence; he's suspicious of the instruments that certify it.
The subtext is darker than simple cynicism. If all that remains is a curated sentence, then "fame" becomes less about achievement than about narrative control: who gets to summarize you, who gets omitted, who gets elevated. It's an early diagnosis of the branding problem, long before "public relations" became an industry. The epitaph is the original bio: short, confident, and potentially lying.
Bovee's intent is corrective, almost hygienic. He punctures the fantasy that posterity is an honest judge, and he reminds readers that remembrance is a genre with its own rules - compression, sentiment, selective truth.
Quote Details
| Topic | Legacy & Remembrance |
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| Source | Unverified source: Intuitions and Summaries of Thought (Christian Nestell Bovee, 1862)
Evidence: A few words upon a tombstone, and the truth of those not to be depended on.. This aphorism is consistently attributed to Bovee’s own book Intuitions and Summaries of Thought (first published 1862). Many later quotation dictionaries reproduce it (secondary sources), often under the topic “Fame,” b... Other candidates (1) I AM: A Five Part Series (Nady Pina, 2020) compilation95.0% ... Fame : A few words upon a tombstone , and the truth of those not to be depended on . - CHRISTIAN NESTELL BOVEE , ... |
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Bovee, Christian Nestell. (2026, February 13). Fame - a few words upon a tombstone, and the truth of those not to be depended on. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-a-few-words-upon-a-tombstone-and-the-truth-141438/
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Bovee, Christian Nestell. "Fame - a few words upon a tombstone, and the truth of those not to be depended on." FixQuotes. February 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-a-few-words-upon-a-tombstone-and-the-truth-141438/.
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"Fame - a few words upon a tombstone, and the truth of those not to be depended on." FixQuotes, 13 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-a-few-words-upon-a-tombstone-and-the-truth-141438/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.











