"Fame obviously has become a premium in everybody's life. Everybody thinks they deserve it, everybody thinks they want it and most people really don't enjoy it once they get it"
About this Quote
The triple “everybody” is the quote’s engine. It mimics the flattening effect of mass culture and social media, where desire becomes a default setting and individuality gets replaced by a consensus fantasy: not just wanting recognition, but feeling entitled to it. “Deserve” is the sharpest word here. Grammer is poking at the moral inflation of attention: the way visibility has been recast as justice, as if being unknown is an injury the world owes you compensation for.
Then he twists the knife with the quiet punchline: “most people really don’t enjoy it once they get it.” The “really” signals lived experience, not theory. Coming from an actor who spent decades as a recognizable face, it reads as both warning and confession: fame sells intimacy, then punishes you with its surveillance. The subtext is that what people want isn’t fame itself but what they imagine it purchases-control, validation, ease-and the moment it arrives, it converts your life into public property. Grammer’s intent isn’t to scold ambition; it’s to separate the glamour of being seen from the reality of being watched.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Grammer, Kelsey. (n.d.). Fame obviously has become a premium in everybody's life. Everybody thinks they deserve it, everybody thinks they want it and most people really don't enjoy it once they get it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-obviously-has-become-a-premium-in-everybodys-136331/
Chicago Style
Grammer, Kelsey. "Fame obviously has become a premium in everybody's life. Everybody thinks they deserve it, everybody thinks they want it and most people really don't enjoy it once they get it." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-obviously-has-become-a-premium-in-everybodys-136331/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Fame obviously has become a premium in everybody's life. Everybody thinks they deserve it, everybody thinks they want it and most people really don't enjoy it once they get it." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fame-obviously-has-become-a-premium-in-everybodys-136331/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.









