"Fantastic tyrant of the amorous heart. How hard thy yoke, how cruel thy dart. Those escape your anger who refuse your sway, and those are punished most, who most obey"
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The couplets lean on the language of bondage and violence - “yoke,” “dart,” “anger,” “punished” - to describe what polite society often sells as pleasure. Prior’s intent isn’t to deny that love feels ecstatic; it’s to insist that ecstasy has a coercive architecture. The “yoke” suggests obligation and social expectation (marriage, reputation, courtship scripts), while the “dart” keeps the old myth alive: desire arrives like an injury, not a choice. The rhetorical trick is that the speaker sounds like he’s complaining about an external god, but the real target is how willingly people internalize love’s demands.
The sting lands in the last two lines: refusal grants “escape,” obedience earns harsher penalties. That paradox reads like emotional Stockholm syndrome with rhyming couplets. Prior is diagnosing a system where the most invested lovers suffer most - precisely because they’ve given love leverage. In the late Stuart/early Augustan world Prior inhabited, wit often served as a socially acceptable way to talk about power: at court, in politics, in bed. The poem borrows that courtly realism and aims it inward, arguing that the heart, like a kingdom, is easiest to govern when its subjects are eager to kneel.
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| Topic | Love |
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Prior, Matthew. (2026, January 17). Fantastic tyrant of the amorous heart. How hard thy yoke, how cruel thy dart. Those escape your anger who refuse your sway, and those are punished most, who most obey. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantastic-tyrant-of-the-amorous-heart-how-hard-64609/
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Prior, Matthew. "Fantastic tyrant of the amorous heart. How hard thy yoke, how cruel thy dart. Those escape your anger who refuse your sway, and those are punished most, who most obey." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantastic-tyrant-of-the-amorous-heart-how-hard-64609/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Fantastic tyrant of the amorous heart. How hard thy yoke, how cruel thy dart. Those escape your anger who refuse your sway, and those are punished most, who most obey." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantastic-tyrant-of-the-amorous-heart-how-hard-64609/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.










