"Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet"
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The line “Never doing it is very exciting” is classic Warholian deadpan, a candy-coated provocation that smuggles in a bleak truth: consummation ends the high. Once you “do it” - emotionally or sexually - the relationship becomes a thing, not a screen. Warhol understood the erotic charge of the untouchable because he built an entire aesthetic around surfaces: glamour, publicity, the curated self. In that world, intimacy is a threat to the image.
“The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet” reads like pop fortune-cookie wisdom until you notice the bite. He’s not celebrating opposites; he’s praising the non-meeting. Opposites “work” only as long as they stay hypothetical, safely separated like rival brands. It’s a comment on celebrity culture (desire at a distance), on queerness in a mid-century climate that often forced desire into coded, unreal spaces, and on capitalism’s favorite trick: keeping you wanting, never satisfied, forever clicking, collecting, consuming. Warhol’s romance is an art object - best admired behind glass.
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Warhol, Andy. (2026, January 18). Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantasy-love-is-much-better-than-reality-love-14262/
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Warhol, Andy. "Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantasy-love-is-much-better-than-reality-love-14262/.
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"Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantasy-love-is-much-better-than-reality-love-14262/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.


