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Love Quote by Andy Warhol

"Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet"

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Warhol takes romance and runs it through the same machine he used for soup cans: flatten it, repeat it, reveal the weird glow of consumer desire underneath. “Fantasy love” isn’t just preference here; it’s a diagnosis. He’s pointing to the way longing thrives on distance, how the idea of someone can be more intoxicating than the friction of their actual habits, needs, and disappointments. Reality love requires maintenance. Fantasy love requires only projection.

The line “Never doing it is very exciting” is classic Warholian deadpan, a candy-coated provocation that smuggles in a bleak truth: consummation ends the high. Once you “do it” - emotionally or sexually - the relationship becomes a thing, not a screen. Warhol understood the erotic charge of the untouchable because he built an entire aesthetic around surfaces: glamour, publicity, the curated self. In that world, intimacy is a threat to the image.

“The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet” reads like pop fortune-cookie wisdom until you notice the bite. He’s not celebrating opposites; he’s praising the non-meeting. Opposites “work” only as long as they stay hypothetical, safely separated like rival brands. It’s a comment on celebrity culture (desire at a distance), on queerness in a mid-century climate that often forced desire into coded, unreal spaces, and on capitalism’s favorite trick: keeping you wanting, never satisfied, forever clicking, collecting, consuming. Warhol’s romance is an art object - best admired behind glass.

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Warhol, Andy. (2026, January 18). Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantasy-love-is-much-better-than-reality-love-14262/

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"Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fantasy-love-is-much-better-than-reality-love-14262/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Andy Warhol (August 6, 1927 - February 22, 1987) was a Artist from USA.

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