"Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are"
About this Quote
Crisp wasn't some distant scold wagging a finger at modern vanity. He was a conspicuously visible gay man in mid-century Britain, cultivating style as both armor and provocation while being punished for it. That tension is the subtext: he knows perfectly well that clothes can be survival, a coded language, a way to take control of how strangers read you. So the jab isn't naive; it's surgical. He's mocking the kind of fashion that behaves like outsourcing - letting trends tell you what you're allowed to be, then confusing that compliance for personality.
The intent lands as a warning about status anxiety. Fashion becomes a passport for people who fear being nobody, a shortcut into tribes they haven't earned through conviction. Crisp's cynicism spares no one: the trend-chaser isn't immoral, just unformed - and the industry is happy to keep them that way, season after season.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Later attribution: Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) modern compilationISBN: 9780977339105 · ID: -T3QhPjIxhIC
Evidence:
... Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are. ~ Quentin Crisp, 1908-1999 ~ The conventional view serves to protect us from the painful job of thinking. ~ J. K. Galbraith, 1908- ~ The idea that men are created free and equal ... |
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