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Life & Wisdom Quote by Quentin Crisp

"Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are"

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A needle-sharp insult hides inside Quentin Crisp's throwaway elegance: fashion, in this framing, isn't self-expression so much as self-evasion. The line works because it flips fashion's usual PR - individuality, creativity, attitude - into a kind of social crutch. "Adopt" is doing the real work here. It suggests not an authentic choice but a rescue animal, a ready-made identity you can bring home, name, and show off when your own interior life feels too unfinished to present in public.

Crisp wasn't some distant scold wagging a finger at modern vanity. He was a conspicuously visible gay man in mid-century Britain, cultivating style as both armor and provocation while being punished for it. That tension is the subtext: he knows perfectly well that clothes can be survival, a coded language, a way to take control of how strangers read you. So the jab isn't naive; it's surgical. He's mocking the kind of fashion that behaves like outsourcing - letting trends tell you what you're allowed to be, then confusing that compliance for personality.

The intent lands as a warning about status anxiety. Fashion becomes a passport for people who fear being nobody, a shortcut into tribes they haven't earned through conviction. Crisp's cynicism spares no one: the trend-chaser isn't immoral, just unformed - and the industry is happy to keep them that way, season after season.

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TopicWisdom
Source
Later attribution: Wisdom for the Soul (Larry Chang, 2006) modern compilationISBN: 9780977339105 · ID: -T3QhPjIxhIC
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Evidence:
... Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are. ~ Quentin Crisp, 1908-1999 ~ The conventional view serves to protect us from the painful job of thinking. ~ J. K. Galbraith, 1908- ~ The idea that men are created free and equal ...
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Crisp, Quentin. (2026, February 12). Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fashion-is-what-you-adopt-when-you-dont-know-who-6442/

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Crisp, Quentin. "Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are." FixQuotes. February 12, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fashion-is-what-you-adopt-when-you-dont-know-who-6442/.

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"Fashion is what you adopt when you don't know who you are." FixQuotes, 12 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fashion-is-what-you-adopt-when-you-dont-know-who-6442/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Quentin Crisp

Quentin Crisp (December 25, 1908 - November 21, 1999) was a Writer from England.

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