"Fastidious taste makes enjoyment a struggle"
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Fastidiousness sounds like refinement until Cooley exposes its hidden price tag: pleasure becomes labor. The line is built on a stingy little paradox. Taste is supposed to streamline delight, separating the good from the mediocre. But when it turns "fastidious", it doesn’t curate experience so much as prosecute it. Enjoyment, that supposedly spontaneous bodily yes, gets dragged into the courtroom of discernment.
Cooley’s intent is less to dunk on sophistication than to diagnose the anxiety that often passes for it. The fastidious person is always auditioning life against an internal canon, scanning for the flaw that will justify withholding delight. That posture can look like intelligence or integrity, but the subtext is defensive: if you demand perfection, you never have to risk being moved by something messy, popular, or simply not "worthy". Taste becomes a shield against being taken in, and also against being surprised.
The phrase "makes enjoyment a struggle" is quietly violent. It suggests friction where there should be ease, a constant muscular tensing of the self. It’s not that the world lacks pleasures; it’s that the gatekeeping mechanism has been installed inside the psyche.
Context matters: Cooley’s aphorisms arrive from late-20th-century literary culture, an era thick with high/low battles and status-coded preferences. His sentence reads like a minimalist critique of cultural capital: the more your identity depends on discriminating judgment, the harder it is to simply like things.
Cooley’s intent is less to dunk on sophistication than to diagnose the anxiety that often passes for it. The fastidious person is always auditioning life against an internal canon, scanning for the flaw that will justify withholding delight. That posture can look like intelligence or integrity, but the subtext is defensive: if you demand perfection, you never have to risk being moved by something messy, popular, or simply not "worthy". Taste becomes a shield against being taken in, and also against being surprised.
The phrase "makes enjoyment a struggle" is quietly violent. It suggests friction where there should be ease, a constant muscular tensing of the self. It’s not that the world lacks pleasures; it’s that the gatekeeping mechanism has been installed inside the psyche.
Context matters: Cooley’s aphorisms arrive from late-20th-century literary culture, an era thick with high/low battles and status-coded preferences. His sentence reads like a minimalist critique of cultural capital: the more your identity depends on discriminating judgment, the harder it is to simply like things.
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