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"Fay has spirituality too, but she also has that very real sex appeal that takes hold of the hearts of men"

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Stroheim’s line is a velvet-gloved sales pitch: it pretends to praise “spirituality” while ensuring the camera, the audience, and the industry keep Fay Wray’s value tethered to male desire. The phrasing does a neat bit of moral laundering. By leading with “spirituality,” he grants her an aura of respectability, then immediately cashes it out into “very real sex appeal,” as if the former is a tasteful preface to the only point that matters. The clincher is the passive-aggressive certainty of “takes hold” - not “attracts” or “intrigues,” but seizes. Wray’s appeal becomes a force of nature, and men become helpless victims of it, which conveniently shifts responsibility away from the gaze doing the consuming.

Coming from Stroheim, an actor-director famous for baroque decadence and a flair for erotic power games, the compliment reads like an auteur’s casting logic made public. This is Hollywood’s early sound-era balancing act in miniature: sell a woman as wholesome enough to admire, sensual enough to buy. The line also signals a gendered hierarchy of interiority. Her spirituality is acknowledged, but it’s treated as an accessory; his real evidence of her worth is the effect she has on “the hearts of men,” a metric that erases women viewers and Wray herself as an agent.

The intent isn’t subtle: elevate her without threatening the system. It’s the industry’s favorite move - sanctify the star so you can safely eroticize her, then call it romance.

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Stroheim, Erich von. (n.d.). Fay has spirituality too, but she also has that very real sex appeal that takes hold of the hearts of men. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fay-has-spirituality-too-but-she-also-has-that-4289/

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Stroheim, Erich von. "Fay has spirituality too, but she also has that very real sex appeal that takes hold of the hearts of men." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fay-has-spirituality-too-but-she-also-has-that-4289/.

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"Fay has spirituality too, but she also has that very real sex appeal that takes hold of the hearts of men." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fay-has-spirituality-too-but-she-also-has-that-4289/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Erich von Stroheim (September 22, 1885 - May 12, 1957) was a Actor from Austria.

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