"Fear is natural. Be with it"
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The second sentence does the real work. “Be with it” isn’t about conquering fear, it’s about refusing the reflex to outsource your emotional life to productivity hacks. In the coaching world Leonard helped popularize, people don’t just want strategies; they want permission. This gives it: permission to stay present while your nervous system screams, to keep making decisions without waiting for confidence to arrive like a calendar invite.
The subtext is pragmatic and slightly subversive for business advice. Corporate mythology rewards fearlessness because it reads as leadership, but it often produces denial, overconfidence, and performative certainty. Leonard flips the script: competence is the ability to sit in discomfort without letting it drive the car. The phrase is also deliberately spare, almost meditative, borrowing from mindfulness without the incense. That brevity makes it portable: a mantra for founders, managers, and anyone addicted to the fantasy that the right plan will eliminate risk. It won’t. The move is learning to operate with fear in the room.
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| Topic | Fear |
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