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Daily Inspiration Quote by Shirley MacLaine

"Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends"

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MacLaine’s line lands because it frames fear not as a private feeling but as a social technology: a force that reorganizes who counts as “us.” In eight words, it captures the eerie speed with which a neighbor becomes a threat once anxiety enters the room. The genius is the verb choice. Fear doesn’t merely reveal strangers; it makes them. That’s an accusation. It implies an active process of manufacturing distance, a quiet alchemy that turns potential intimacy into suspicion.

Coming from an actress who’s spent decades watching (and embodying) human motives in close-up, the quote reads less like a policy slogan and more like a backstage note about how relationships collapse. MacLaine’s career spans eras defined by televised panic and tabloid outrage, from Cold War paranoia to post-9/11 securitization to today’s algorithmic outrage cycles. The line fits that cultural arc: fear is rarely presented raw. It’s packaged, circulated, and rewarded. It gives people a script - cross the street, clutch your bag, assume bad faith, pre-emptively harden.

The subtext is almost tender: friendship is the default setting, not the miracle. If fear can “make” strangers, then connection isn’t naive; it’s simply what becomes possible when we stop outsourcing our perceptions to dread. The quote’s sting is that it doesn’t let anyone off the hook. Strangeness, it suggests, is often something we choose - or something chosen for us - long before we ever speak.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
MacLaine, Shirley. (2026, January 16). Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-makes-strangers-of-people-who-would-be-125651/

Chicago Style
MacLaine, Shirley. "Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-makes-strangers-of-people-who-would-be-125651/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Fear makes strangers of people who would be friends." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fear-makes-strangers-of-people-who-would-be-125651/. Accessed 4 Feb. 2026.

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Shirley MacLaine (born April 24, 1934) is a Actress from USA.

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