"Feminism - the word - can give us a handle, a rallying point, a common ground, and help us build a bridge. Why not claim the gift of the word as a place to begin?"
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Her intent is pragmatic. A “handle” is what you grab when something’s heavy; it implies feminism is not an abstract ideal but an unwieldy reality you need leverage to move. “Rallying point” and “common ground” pull in opposite directions - one is militant, the other conciliatory - and that tension is the point. Buckley’s subtext is that movements die when they fragment into purity tests and private vocabularies. A shared word, even an imperfect one, becomes infrastructure: something people can gather under, argue within, and still recognize as home.
“Build a bridge” is the actress’s instinct for audience. She’s thinking about translation: how to get skeptics close enough to hear the rest of the story without demanding they arrive pre-enlightened. The closer, almost conversational “Why not…” isn’t naive; it’s rhetorical pressure disguised as invitation. “Claim the gift” reframes a maligned label as inheritance, not insult. Start with the word, she implies, because refusing it doesn’t make you freer - it just leaves you unnamed, and therefore easier to dismiss.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Buckley, Betty. (2026, January 17). Feminism - the word - can give us a handle, a rallying point, a common ground, and help us build a bridge. Why not claim the gift of the word as a place to begin? FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminism-the-word-can-give-us-a-handle-a-43307/
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Buckley, Betty. "Feminism - the word - can give us a handle, a rallying point, a common ground, and help us build a bridge. Why not claim the gift of the word as a place to begin?" FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminism-the-word-can-give-us-a-handle-a-43307/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Feminism - the word - can give us a handle, a rallying point, a common ground, and help us build a bridge. Why not claim the gift of the word as a place to begin?" FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/feminism-the-word-can-give-us-a-handle-a-43307/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.

