"Few there are that will endure a true friend"
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“Few there are that will endure a true friend” takes a pleasant Victorian noun - friend - and turns it into a stress test. The verb choice is the tell. You don’t “enjoy” or “cherish” a true friend; you endure one, the way you endure bad weather or an inconvenient truth. Bohn, a publisher by trade, knew something about reputations and the social economy around them: people want companionship that flatters, confirms, and stays pleasantly in the background. A “true” friend, by contrast, is a living rebuke to your self-mythology. They remember what you said last year. They notice your evasions. They refuse to be managed.
The line’s intent is less sentimental than corrective. It punctures the era’s polite idealization of friendship by insisting that sincerity has friction. The subtext is almost clinical: most of us don’t actually want honesty at full strength. We want allies, audiences, co-signers - relationships that can be curated. A true friend can’t be curated. They bring continuity, accountability, and the kind of intimacy that makes comfort impossible to fake.
Context matters: in 19th-century Britain, social life was thick with codes - of class, respectability, and deference. Bohn’s world ran on networks, introductions, and the careful maintenance of tone. In that environment, “true friendship” isn’t just rare; it’s socially disruptive. To endure it is to tolerate being seen, without makeup, by someone who won’t look away.
The line’s intent is less sentimental than corrective. It punctures the era’s polite idealization of friendship by insisting that sincerity has friction. The subtext is almost clinical: most of us don’t actually want honesty at full strength. We want allies, audiences, co-signers - relationships that can be curated. A true friend can’t be curated. They bring continuity, accountability, and the kind of intimacy that makes comfort impossible to fake.
Context matters: in 19th-century Britain, social life was thick with codes - of class, respectability, and deference. Bohn’s world ran on networks, introductions, and the careful maintenance of tone. In that environment, “true friendship” isn’t just rare; it’s socially disruptive. To endure it is to tolerate being seen, without makeup, by someone who won’t look away.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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