"Few women, I fear, have had such reason as I have to think the long sad years of youth were worth living for the sake of middle age"
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The sentence is built like delayed gratification itself. “Long sad years of youth” lands with the weight of accumulated time; “worth living for the sake of middle age” flips the usual script where middle age is the compromise and youth the prize. The subtext is that fulfillment is contingent, not guaranteed - and that the “reason” is personal, likely tied to marriage, partnership, or the steadier satisfactions of settled life after years of strain. Coming from Eisenhower, whose early adulthood was shaped by relentless military work, separations, and the disciplined suppression of private needs in service of institutional goals, the line reads as a rare leak of interior cost.
It also performs a very Eisenhower kind of leadership rhetoric: understated, unshowy, moral without sermonizing. The intent isn’t to dramatize suffering; it’s to validate it, to say that a life can feel mis-timed and still end up meaningful. The poignancy is in the implied exception: middle age isn’t typically framed as a rescue, which is exactly why this lands.
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| Topic | Aging |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Eisenhower, Dwight D. (2026, January 17). Few women, I fear, have had such reason as I have to think the long sad years of youth were worth living for the sake of middle age. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/few-women-i-fear-have-had-such-reason-as-i-have-30922/
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Eisenhower, Dwight D. "Few women, I fear, have had such reason as I have to think the long sad years of youth were worth living for the sake of middle age." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/few-women-i-fear-have-had-such-reason-as-i-have-30922/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Few women, I fear, have had such reason as I have to think the long sad years of youth were worth living for the sake of middle age." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/few-women-i-fear-have-had-such-reason-as-i-have-30922/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.



